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When it comes to love, really, anything
goes. There may be a right way and a wrong way to find
love, but in reality, people find love all kinds of
The journey to love can be
bumpy. Sometimes, I think of it as riding a bucking
bronco. To ride a bucking bronco, you have to be in
synch with it. If you try to fight against, control
or force a bronco, you get thrown. You have to be in
synch with yourself, too.
If a shy man is in synch
with himself, he he may stop berating himself for not being outgoing, and opt, instead, to appear mysterious.
If an intense woman is in
synch with herself, she may stop trying to be reserved, and find a man who can appreciate her passion.
If a depressed, anxious woman
is in synch with herself, she may stop presenting to be cheery and at ease, and opt instead to know that she is ill-at ease and register which man helps her feel more comfortable.
We try so hard to get rid
of unwanted parts of ourselves sometimes - the bucking broncos that threaten to throw us off course. But often, we can't. When we try to get rid of those
parts, in fact, they can come back to haunt us.
Unwanted parts of ourselves
may rebel and hold us hostage and we can become trapped
in the snares of disappointment, disillusionment and
When we can finally invite all
the various parts of ourselves in to our mental house,
they can become amenable to influence and modification if necessary, or at least, not interfere with our goals.
Your best ride on the journey
to love is the ride that speaks to your worst as well
as your best self; it is the path that is in perfect
synch with who you are.
By dispensing with the idea
that there is a distinct path, correct sequence of steps
or ultimate "best" way to find love, you can
find your own, best ride on the journey to love...
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